What measures can we take to live in society while remaining whole in love?
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"Become inwardly whole and loving, and relate to others as flowers sharing fragrance, not as means to fill your lacks. Treat each person as an end, giving unconditionally and keeping one another free."
According to Osho, live in society by first becoming inwardly whole and loving, then relate from freedom, not to fill your lacks. Meet like flowers, stars, or lamps: sharing fragrance and light without dependence, demands, or identity-loss. Treat each person as an end, not a means; give unconditionally, keep one another free, collaborate, and part without wounds.
Be full and happy inside first, then share love without clinging, using, or controlling each other.
Why this matters practically
- Helps prevent codependent, transactional bonds and reduces drama.
- Preserves your individuality and peace while deepening intimacy.
- Transforms relationships into joyful collaboration rather than control.
- Preserves your individuality and peace while deepening intimacy.
- Transforms relationships into joyful collaboration rather than control.
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