What is self-realization and how does it relate to existence and relationships with people?
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definition
"Self-realization is the dissolution of the self; in that emptiness, you discover your oneness with existence, transcending the illusion of duality in relationships."
According to Osho, 'self-realization' is a contradiction; true realization is no-self (anatta). When the self drops, you become one with existence—cosmic, not separate. Relationship belongs to two selves; it is a facade of duality. From realization there is no relationship, only oneness; others may relate to you, but you are simply presence inviting their own no-self.
Realization means your ‘me’ disappears, you feel one with everything, and relationships become simple shared being without two separate egos.
Why this matters practically
- Loosen ego-identifications to reduce conflict and anxiety.
- Shift love from possession and expectation to presence and compassion.
- Stop chasing ‘self-improvement’ as an ego project; cultivate awareness and letting go.
- Shift love from possession and expectation to presence and compassion.
- Stop chasing ‘self-improvement’ as an ego project; cultivate awareness and letting go.
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