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What is karma in the context of relationships?

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"Karma in relationships is not fate, but the mind's repetitive patterns; true freedom arises when we drop expectations and see each other as we truly are."

According to Osho, relationship troubles are not karma at all but the mind’s repetitive program: labels, expectations, and mutual seduction that trap us. Men and women play predictable roles; we get befooled, then repeat. Freedom comes through awareness and acceptance—see things as they are, drop expectations, decondition yourself. Then you can love without misery, cool and calm.
It’s not destiny messing up love; it’s our own habits and hopes—notice them and accept people as they are to stop getting hurt.
Why this matters practically
- Shifts you from blaming fate to taking responsibility.
- Reduces heartbreak by dropping unrealistic expectations.
- Creates calmer, more authentic relating through awareness and deconditioning.
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